Tao Yuelian's quotations

1. Affair with someone, there are no pain; the amount of pain you feel is worth more than the pleasure you give to yourself.

2. The age of your life isn't as important as the moment when you turn into an old man or a great one.

3. Relationships in motion and fate in proximity.

4. What you see matters, what you don't see doesn't.

5. Affair is a balance of greed and fear; the more you desire, the easier it is to lose.

6. Flowers already make their decision, whether they fade or bloom together, and their fate together as well.

7. Thirty years ago, the moon was long gone, thirty years ago, people were dead, but the story wasn't finished—didn't finish.

8. Someone is an animal; someone else is a plant. If someone is ignored, they won't return to life; they will fade and disappear in time.

9. Relationships aren't complicated; they are just three words: "I love you, I care about you," or "Okay, let me move on."

10. Strive for a long-life relationship isn't as much of a challenge as staying one step ahead of fate.

11. Those who carve their story in stone will never be able to change hands; they won't be able to leave behind them.

12. Ignoring your true self is not a fixed destination; everything can and will get lost along the way, but only if you don't fix it.

13. Relationships and death are the same; relationships aren't complicated either.

14. If someone loves you, they also love you,甜的是多；不爱的是酸，少；不爱你的更苦。

15. The act of being in a relationship is to be self-sufficient. If you're not with someone, don't give them more than your time.

16. Relationships are hard and expensive; money isn't the answer.

17. Relationships make us forget time, time also makes us forget relationships.

18. Relationships are like a grand party—every dance, every moment together, but it's all about being in it together.

19. After marriage, everything else becomes irrelevant to the past.

20. Relationships are a form of sleep; some people can't sleep at night.

21. Each flower is from someone's soul, but they may not return unless you grow up to see them.

22. Relationships are for love and affection, and losses will come easy when the person who loved them leaves.

23. A relationship that fails or ends doesn't change your fate; it only means that time was wasted and may never come back.

24. The best way to handle this is to treat people as you would treat a precious asset, and if they don't appreciate the value in their life, let them go when they are ready for it.

25. Relationships are about balance—more than enough time to process things and move on.

26. The wind isn't going to blow away the fairy lights; she'll fall where she's not supposed to be, but will stay in her place until she finds the right time to fly.

27. Because relationships are plain sailing for some of us, and because we don't want them to take a turn for the worse, we try to keep things simple.

28. Relationships are like gold—it's important not just to collect it but to use it—use the best parts, ignore the worse ones.

29. A person who doesn't love their partner might not see them again, and they'll stay on the sidelines until things get too bad.

30. Relationships are like a story—they can be happy or sad depending on who ends up with whom.

31. Everyone is in your past; everything that happened before you will always be there for you in the future, but they won't come back to you if you don't choose them.

32. To make a relationship last as long as possible, it shouldn't matter how small something can be—just focus on making them happy in the moment and then move on.

33. When you fall for someone, it's like when you lose love; it doesn't end unless your heart is broken.

34. Don't discard a perfect opportunity because of the size of your pocket; don't discard a good life because of its cost.

35. Relationships aren't easy to handle—they aren't stored away in your fridge, nor are they ready for a trip to the movies.

36. Bullying and other ways of breaking up have many different effects but can all be traced back to the fact that you don't want them to happen again.

37. Sky loves land; it's still alive, even when there's no sky above it; when sky wants land, it will spill over into the earth and pour down rain and snow.

38. Relationships aren't about what you choose for someone else—it's about how much you want to be with them and how long you can stay together until they see it through to their end.

39. You don't know what you're missing when someone is gone, and neither do you care; you just need to know that there are people who will come back for you when your time comes to be with them.

40. Relationships can last forever if you choose not to lose them—your love will always stay—it doesn't matter how long it takes or what happens during the process.

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